Books
Get Up With Fleas: A Memoir of Abuse and Gratitude
Get Up With Fleas: A Memoir of Abuse and Gratitude is Alexander's powerful story of breaking the cycle of trauma and reclaiming life on his own terms. Raised in a southern home poisoned by violence, neglect, and religious hypocrisy, he endured years of severe abuse at the hands of his stepfather. Yet amid the chaos, he found brief moments of escape—in books, nature, and the respite of Christmas days where the temporary peace reminded him of what life should be.
As the eldest of seven children, he faced the unbearable burden of trying to shield his siblings from the worst while enduring the brunt of the physical violence. Alexander had to grow up quickly, bearing the labels of scapegoat and protector, while navigating a world that only accentuated his isolation and desire for connection. Alexander undergoes the long process of healing, of reparenting himself, and of choosing gratitude even in the wake of suffering. From reclaiming his identity by changing his name to creating a loving home with his wife and child, Alexander now reflects on his remarkable journey of survival, hope, and the power of intentional love.
What Readers Are Saying
Ryan
★★★★★ A Must Read
This memoir is packed full of wisdom, humor, clever wit, and entertaining stories. The author does an incredible job of keeping the book engaging and readable, even through the more intense subject matter. The journey of self-discovery told through this book is heartwarming. The way the author has navigated and grown through trauma they experienced through their upbringing is encouraging and it seemingly invites the reader to consider how they too can grow from their own experiences. An excellent read and a wonderful journey. Highly recommend.
Lauren
★★★★★ Vulnerable, self-reflective
I really enjoyed this. An easy read despite the difficulty subject matter, and packed with wisdom from the perspective of a survivor who is able to turn a childhood of disconnection and isolation into a life filled with community and chosen family. TL;DR I laughed, I cried, it moved me, Bob.
Sarah
★★★★★ Great story telling; authentic
This story is so well told. The narration feels like you're sitting down talking with them about their life. It is very vulnerable and humbling to read. I think anyone who is looking for good story telling would enjoy this book.
John
★★★★★ Vulnerable and insightful
A vulnerable memoir of an intense childhood packed with self-reflection. Valuable for those who want to heal their inner child, or plan on raising a little child, or both! Read it!!
Children's Books
A new series of books is in the works, aimed at middle-grades readers. Expect swashbuckling adventure on the high-seas, as the protagonist races to solve a mystery.